Blessings

First, I want to thank all of you who helped us with the great Pampered Chef fundraiser!!  The total funds raised were $129.78!!!  Awesome!!

On December 2nd, we had a silent auction that included 47 items from many great businesses and individuals.  We raised $1439 that day!!!

We were also blessed to have Casandra Mueller from Adel volunteer her time and talent to help create our wonderful support letters!  We love them and she did an amazing job.  We are so blessed to have such loving and supportive people in our lives, with such kind and encouraging words to lift us up, and it truly helps me keep going when things seem too overwhelming.

We had our final home study on December 6th and hope to have the home study and dossier submitted to IAN by January!  Once those items are reviewed, we will finally be able to look at a picture of her face, know her name and also her story.  This is a moment we are having a hard time waiting for.

We have been so blessed and supported by so many of you!  This little girl is going to have such a wonderful extended family filled with all of you!  Thanks so much for investing in the future of our child!

We are selling these t-shirts for $15.  This shirt represents the "2 MILLION" orphans in Uganda and the "MINUS 2" is for our daughter and the daughter of the Kiley family; the proceeds are helping to get our families one step closer to making this statement our reality!!  You can email me your orders or Facebook message me!  Email is veach5@q.com.

A little bit closer:)

Here are the adorable dolls I got off Etsy at be mary by hand.  I just love them!!  Our good friends are also adopting a little girl from Uganda (kileyfamilyadoption.blogspot.com) so one of the dolls is for their little girl!!

We had our first home study last night and it went very well.  It was nothing like I had expected.  We talked for over 2 hours about ourselves, family and the adoption while she typed away.  It was like talking to a friend!!  We will have our last meeting on December 6th!!  This is REALLY happening!!!  Each piece of paper work is just one step closer to our little girl!!!!!

Remember to check out the Pampered Chef adoption fundraiser that I am hosting on November 4th.  To place an order you can go to:

 ***HOW TO VIEW THE CATALOG & ORDER***

1. Visit my consultant's site - www.pamperedchef.biz/carissabeer.
2. Click on Shop Online.
3. Click Option 1 and enter our name, Lindsey Veach OR Brianne Kiley, as the host.
4. Shop away!!!

Please make sure to get all orders in by Nov9th!! 

Thanks again for all the love and support!!  

Lilah can't wait for the "real" sister to come and get her dolly!!  She is so excited to be a BIG SISTER!!!

Understanding the fees & schedule of our adoption

ITEM	FEE AMOUNT	PAYMENT DUE
Application Fee	$250	Due with Application Approval
1st Agency Fee	$2,500	Due with Policy Documents
2nd Agency fee	$2,500	Due when Dossier is Submitted to IAN
Dossier Authentication	$525	Due when Dossier is Submitted to IAN
Home Study Review	$300	Due when HS is submitted for review
Post Adoption Liability	$300	Due when Dossier is submitted to IAN
Uganda Country Fee	$9,500	Due with Child Referral Acceptance
In Country Fee	$700	Due with Child Referral Acceptance
Validation Fee	$300	Due with Child Referral Acceptance
TOTAL	$16,875	Total Due Before Court Appointment can be set in Uganda

For those of you who are curious about the costs of adoption and the process, I thought this would help.  The items that have been crossed out have already been paid and completed! You are probably also wondering how we plan to come up with all this money, and that is where you come in, our family and friends.  This is a giant leap of faith for us.  We are fully relying on God to send laborers across our path to bring this child home.  Thanks to everyone who is investing into this little girl's future! James 1:27 tells us that "True devotion, the kind that is pure and faultless before God the Father, is this: to care for orphans and widows in their difficulties and to keep the world from contaminating us" (CEB). God is Good!!

ITEM	ESTIMATED FEE AMOUNT	PAYABLE TO:
USCIS-Filing Fee	$720	USCIS with Application I-600A
USCIS-Fingerprints	$80 per person	USCIS for Biometric Fingerprints
Child’s Visa	$404 per child	US Embassy in Uganda
Home study	$950	William Pierce Adoption Serives
Post adoption & finalizing	$2,200
Travel Costs (2 trips)	$6,500-8,500	Airline, hotel, drivers, food, etc.
Document Expenses	varies from state to state

Craziness = Success

Yesterday was a crazy but successful day!!  We had a lovely lady offer to take our pictures for our support letters and we had a lot of fun with it.  I loaded a total of 7 children (my daycare children had to come with me) into my van and Nathan's truck and head to the hour long photo session.  I am so excited to see the final photos!

Today was another great day!!  We have scheduled our first home study!!!!!  On November 1 we will be meeting our home study agent and begin that process.  It takes around 5 to 8 weeks to complete this process.  I just envision my daughter's beautiful face and can't wait to plaster it with kisses!!!

The trip that changed our lives!

       In 2005, the Watoto children's choir came to sing at our church; that was what I call the beginning of my love for Uganda.  I sat and cried at those beautiful little faces that sang so joyfully.  I was so moved with emotion (which is not like me) that I knew something big would happen in my life that would lead me to Uganda.  In early 2010 our church decided to go to Uganda on a mission trip to build a school for the orphan children.  I jumped right in and was ready to go.  The wait was long (2 years) and we had many fundraisers but the ultimate goal was to get to Uganda and serve those beautiful children for 2 weeks.  I had never flown and never left the Midwest so this was a big step for me.  I was out of my comfort zone but totally ready for this experience.  

       Nathan, me and 5 others from my church left on March 1, 2012  and flew for 25 hours to reach the Entebbe airport.  The moment we got off the plane we see a man with a machine gun patrolling the airport.  It was late at night when we arrived so I had no idea what I would experience when I got out of the airport.  We loaded on a bus to drive to Kampala to stay in the guest house.  The drive was scary, no traffic lights or center lines it was nuts. There are no street lights so all you could see for the hour drive were flickering lanterns and an endless line of little makeshift storefronts.  As we got closer to Kampala there were people everywhere.  We made it to the guest house and we had no electricity so the lady dripped some wax from her candle onto the tile floor and stuck the candle in the wax as a way to hold the candle up so we would have light to get our things put away.  The next morning is when my eyes were opened and the images of what I saw are forever etched into my memory.  Kids, Kids, Kids, they were everywhere.  There were lots of people but the kids stood out to me the most.  There were kids carrying babies on there backs and others carrying big containers of water on their little heads.  The images of Africa that you see in the tv commercials to get sponsors for those children crawling in trash heaps is so true.  You would just assume that those children had parents that loved them but unfortunately that is not the case for all of them.  There are around  5 million people in Kampala and 50% are under the age of 15 years old.  WHAT?!!!  

       We traveled to Gulu (200 miles on bus and it took us 6 hours to get there) to begin our work on the school and the stories that we heard there were crazy too.  Joseph Kony was a name I had never heard of but I know it well today.  The children he took to create his Lord's Resistance Army is so real as much as we want to believe that it is not.  The mutilation and killing of innocent people was just so devastating.  We helped build a school that today is educating children to be future leaders of Uganda and help restore that torn part of the country.  After leaving  Uganda and coming home to clean water, electricity and great road systems I still just craved being back with the wonderful people we left behind.  I thought this missing piece of my heart was the craving to be back in Uganda to serve but I was wrong.  In September 2012 God called Nathan and I to adopt from Uganda, for me this was an easy, "YES"!

       I thought about Uganda everyday since I had been home and I knew this made perfect sense.  There was a child in Uganda waiting for her family to love her!!  I was just so thrilled to know that God was allowing us to answer that child's prayers and plea for a family.  When I talked to Nathan he had a very different response, "No we have 3 kids already."  I was not going to just let this call go.  I knew what God was asking me to do so I told God to deal with Nathan while I continued the adoption research.  Only 2 days later Nathan said he heard from God too and he was moved to tears with the love that God had showed him and the love we will show this child!!  That was the day we conceived that little Ugandan girl in our hearts!!  We chose International Adoption Net (IAN) out of Colorado to be our agency.  We have sent our formal application in and will be beginning our home study in the next few weeks.  It takes about  7 months to 1 year to complete this adoption and I want all of you to be part of bringing this beautiful child home!!